{"id":29569,"date":"2023-11-02T11:36:12","date_gmt":"2023-11-02T18:36:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/occupysf.net\/?p=29569"},"modified":"2023-11-02T11:36:13","modified_gmt":"2023-11-02T18:36:13","slug":"book-parenting-beyond-power-how-to-use-connection-and-collaboration-to-transform-your-family-and-the-world","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/occupysf.net\/index.php\/2023\/11\/02\/book-parenting-beyond-power-how-to-use-connection-and-collaboration-to-transform-your-family-and-the-world\/","title":{"rendered":"BOOK: \u201cPARENTING BEYOND POWER: HOW TO USE CONNECTION AND COLLABORATION TO TRANSFORM YOUR FAMILY\u2013AND THE WORLD\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/bathtubbulletin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/image-3.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-52760\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"title\">Parenting Beyond Power: How to Use Connection and Collaboration to Transform Your Family\u2013and the World&nbsp;<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>by&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/s\/ref=dp_byline_sr_book_1?ie=UTF8&amp;field-author=Jen+Lumanlan+MS++MEd&amp;text=Jen+Lumanlan+MS++MEd&amp;sort=relevancerank&amp;search-alias=books\">Jen Lumanlan MS MEd<\/a>&nbsp;(Author)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201cI\u2019m in love with this book! It illuminates the forces that make parenting so difficult, and helps us develop better relationships with our kids\u2014and ourselves.\u201d<br>\u2014Hunter Clarke-Fields, MSAE, author of&nbsp;Raising Good Humans<br><br><\/strong>Parenting is&nbsp;<em>hard.&nbsp;<\/em>But when we replace conventional parent-child power dynamics with collaboration, family life gets easier today\u2014and we create a better world for all of us in the future.<br><br>When we see our children stalling, resisting, having tantrums, using mean words, and hitting, we want to<em>&nbsp;just make it stop<\/em>. But conventional discipline methods like time-outs, countdowns, and \u201cconsequences\u201d teach children that it\u2019s OK for more powerful people to control others\u2014a lesson they take out into the world. This is how&nbsp;<em>we<\/em>&nbsp;learned White supremacy, patriarchy, and capitalism from our parents\u2014and we will replicate this with our children unless we make a different choice.<br><br>Research-based parenting educator Jen Lumanlan offers a simple yet revolutionary framework for rethinking our relationships with children. This new approach helps us to look beneath challenging behaviors to find and meet children\u2019s needs, and ours too\u2014perhaps for the first time in our lives. It involves empathetic listening, understanding feelings and underlying needs, and problem-solving with our children to find solutions to conflicts that work for everyone.<br><br>Family life becomes radically easier in the short term because behavior problems tend to melt away. In the long term, we\u2019ll raise children who confidently advocate for themselves&nbsp;and treat others with profound respect.<br><br>Includes sample scripts, flowcharts, and resources to help parents learn and implement this new approach.<br><br><br>\u2014\u201dThe compassionate guidance will be a boon to parents eager to move away from punitive child-rearing strategies.\u201d<strong><em>\u2014Publisher\u2019s Weekly<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Amazon.com)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Parenting Beyond Power: How to Use Connection and Collaboration to Transform Your Family\u2013and the World&nbsp; by&nbsp;Jen Lumanlan MS MEd&nbsp;(Author) \u201cI\u2019m in love with this book! It illuminates the forces that make parenting so difficult, and helps us develop better relationships with our kids\u2014and ourselves.\u201d\u2014Hunter Clarke-Fields, MSAE, author of&nbsp;Raising Good Humans&#8230; <a class=\"continue-reading-link\" href=\"https:\/\/occupysf.net\/index.php\/2023\/11\/02\/book-parenting-beyond-power-how-to-use-connection-and-collaboration-to-transform-your-family-and-the-world\/\"> Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr; <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1337,1338],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/occupysf.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29569"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/occupysf.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/occupysf.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/occupysf.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/occupysf.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29569"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/occupysf.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29569\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29570,"href":"https:\/\/occupysf.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29569\/revisions\/29570"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/occupysf.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29569"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/occupysf.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29569"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/occupysf.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29569"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}